Questions & answers

40 questions about
hearing voices

Honest answers, without jargon. Based on the approach of the film: listening instead of suppressing. Choose who you are, and you will only see the questions that apply to you.

I hear voices, am I going mad?

No. About one in ten people hears voices at some point in their life, after loss, under stress, or for no clear reason. It is a human experience, and there is no evidence that something is irreparably wrong with you. Many people are frightened by it at first, but most learn to live with it.

Am I the only one?

Far from it. In the Netherlands alone (18 million inhabitants), 300,000 people are hearing voices right now (a point prevalence of 1-2%); most never talk about it. In the film you see five people who do, and worldwide there are networks of voice hearers helping each other in more than 40 countries (the Hearing Voices network).

Should I tell someone? And who?

Talking about it almost always brings relief: the secrecy is often heavier than the voices themselves. Choose someone you feel safe with: a friend, a family member or your GP. You don't have to tell everything at once; "I sometimes hear things other people don't hear" is enough to begin with.

Why do I hear voices?

There is no simple answer to that. There are many different explanations. For many people the voices turn out to be connected to what they have lived through: loss, bullying, violence, or a period of intense stress. In the approach shown in the film, that connection with life events is deliberately explored: what a voice says often points to something that is asking for attention.

Is hearing voices hereditary?

No. Genetic predisposition explains only part of the story, and we don't even know how. Far more often, hearing voices is connected to what someone has been through (loss, stress, a major life event) than to what someone has inherited. A predisposition may play a part in sensitivity, but it is never the whole answer, and certainly no reason to think something is "broken" in your brain.

Does hearing voices mean I have schizophrenia?

No. Hearing voices is an experience, not a diagnosis. Many voice hearers never receive a psychiatric diagnosis and lead ordinary lives. Whether you need help depends on the distress you experience, not on a label. That is exactly the question the film puts to psychiatry.

In my culture, voices are understood differently. How does that relate to this approach?

Very well. In many cultures, voices are seen as ancestors, spirits or spiritual messengers, not as illness, and that understanding need not clash with the approach in the film. The starting point is the same: listening to what the voice means within the person's own life and world, instead of immediately medicalising that meaning away. Wherever possible, we build on how someone already understands their own experience.

Do I have to do what the voices say?

No. Never. You decide: a voice may be heard without being in charge. Many people learn to make agreements with their voices and to set boundaries. Is a voice telling you to harm yourself or someone else? You never have to carry that alone: call the crisis line for your country (see the organisations at the bottom of this page) or talk to your practitioner or GP today.

Can I talk with my voices?

Yes, that is the heart of the film. In the approach of psychiatrist Dirk Corstens (Talking With Voices), the voice is invited to take part in the conversation. Voices often turn out to be protecting something, and what they say can be meaningful. You can learn to enter into conversation with your voices. A respectful attitude is a good starting point.

What is the difference with Avatar Therapy?

Both methods help people relate differently to their voices, but the approach differs in an essential way. In Avatar Therapy, you mainly learn to change your own attitude towards the voice, through a virtual representation of it. In the approach from the film (Talking With Voices), you enter into a relationship with the voice itself: who is it, what does it want, what is it pointing to. This is not a question of "better or worse", but it is an important distinction not to mix up. Some voice hearers are drawn more to one than to the other.

Does ignoring or suppressing my voices help?

For most people, fighting the voices backfires: the harder you push, the harder they push back. The experience from the film and from the Hearing Voices network is that recognition (listening, setting limits, understanding) reduces the struggle. That is something very different from obeying. That said, when the voices talk a great deal, ignoring them can sometimes be necessary too.

What can I do when the voices are loud at night?

Nights are often the hardest: you are tired, alone and without distraction. What helps many people: grounding: "name 3 things you see, 2 you hear, 1 you feel"; slow breathing: "in for 4 counts, out for 6"; music or an outside voice (a podcast, an audiobook). Make a night plan at a calm moment, so you know what to do before it gets that far.

Should I take medication?

That is a conversation between you and your practitioner; there is no universal "should". Medication can soften the voices and bring rest; for some people that is exactly what is needed, for others it has no effect at all and does not outweigh the side effects. Learning to live with your voices and taking medication do not exclude each other. Important: never stop or change medication on your own; tapering is possible, but guided.

Can I simply work, study and love while hearing voices?

Yes. There are voice hearers in every profession, including healthcare itself. The voices can make some periods heavy and sometimes you have to adjust your life around them, but hearing voices does not rule out a full life. The people in the film are the proof.

Will the voices ever go away?

Sometimes they do; often not completely, and that is a more honest answer than a promise. What almost always can change is your relationship with the voices: from enemies who run your day to something you can live with. Many people say afterwards: the voices are still there, but I am back at the wheel.

Where do I find others who know this?

In Hearing Voices peer groups, run for and by voice hearers: talking with people who know the experience first-hand is, for many, the single biggest step forward. Internationally there is Intervoice, the organisation supporting the worldwide network. At the bottom of this page you'll find the organisations per country.

What if I'm in crisis?

Then there is help right now, day and night. If you are thinking about suicide, call the crisis line for your country (you'll find it at the bottom of this page). If it is life-threatening, call your local emergency number. If you have a practitioner, their service has a crisis team; your GP or out-of-hours GP service can help too. Save these numbers in your phone.

Help in your country

The right organisations, wherever you are

🇳🇱 Netherlands

Stichting Weerklank · for and by voice hearers

Ypsilon · for loved ones

Steunpunten Stemmen Horen (local support points): Nijmegen · Utrecht · Den Haag · Leiden · peer support groups

MIND Atlas · find help near you (Dutch)

Crisis: call your GP or the out-of-hours GP service · thoughts of suicide: 113 or 0800-0113 (24/7) · life-threatening emergency: 112

🇬🇧 United Kingdom

Hearing Voices Network England · birthplace of the movement (Manchester)

Mind UK

Crisis: Samaritans 116 123 (24/7)

🇦🇺 Australia

Hearing Voices Network Australia

SANE Australia

Crisis: Lifeline 13 11 14 (24/7)

🇨🇦 Canada

Canadian Mental Health Association

Hearing Voices groups via Intervoice

Crisis: call or text 9-8-8 (24/7)

🇭🇰 Hong Kong

Mind HK

Hearing Voices Network Hong Kong

Crisis: Samaritans 2896 0000 · Suicide Prevention Services 2382 0000

🇩🇪 Germany

Netzwerk Stimmenhören (NeVeR)

Crisis: Telefonseelsorge 0800 111 0 111 (24/7)

🇫🇷 France

REV France · Réseau sur l'entente de voix

Crisis: 3114 (24/7)

🇳🇴 Norway

Mental Helse

Hearing Voices groups via Intervoice

Crisis: Hjelpetelefonen 116 123 (24/7)

🇩🇰 Denmark

Psykiatrifonden

Hearing Voices groups via Intervoice

Crisis: Livslinien 70 201 201

🌍 Worldwide

Intervoice · Hearing Voices networks in 35+ countries

Crisis lines per country: befrienders.org

These answers are general information, not medical advice or treatment. They are written from the perspective of the film and the Hearing Voices approach, and are being reviewed by experts by experience and practitioners. For personal questions, talk to your doctor or practitioner. In an emergency, call the crisis line for your country listed above.